Effective Leadership Must Be Courageous

A legend from India tells about a mouse who was terrified of cats until a magician agreed to transform him into a cat.   That resolved his fear until he met a dog, so the magician changed him into a dog.  The mouse-turned-cat-turned-dog was content until he met a tiger—so , Read more

Stop Trying To Achieve Work-Life Balance

I have never like the whole concept of work-life balance.  It implies that both areas have equal importance and the honest truth is they don’t.  Balance also creates competing priorities instead of integrating your life around core values.  Mark Merrill has some compelling thoughts: “I’m talking about the work-life balance Read more

Leadership Demands Authenticity

There are many generational issues that have to be resolved between the Baby Boomer generation of existing leaders and the Next Generation workforce that is coming onto the scene.  The old positional power model of simply telling everyone what to do and they automatically follow with no desire for involvement Read more

7 Keys To Marriage Maintenance

I have now been married for 44 years and still realize that if I don’t evaluate the basics on a regular basis we can easily get into trouble.  Never assume that you have reached a point where it’s not important to do the little things because in a great marriage Read more

How To Have A Winning Attitude

Lou Holtz the famous football coach once said, “Ability is what you’re capable of doing, motivation determines what you do and attitude determines how well you do it.” We have heard all our lives how important a role our attitude plays in everything we do every day. In John Maxwell’s Read more

Everyone Is Looking For Security and Significance

The two major things that all people are searching for in life are security and significance.  Security is the understanding that I am unconditionally loved and significance means that my life has value and meaning. Most of the time we are searching for both of these needs in all of Read more

The Power Of Momentum

There are very few things more difficult to deal with in your personal or professional life than a loss of momentum.  It can be brought on by some major tragedy or a series of small compromises over a very long period of time. Eventually we get to a place where Read more

How Much Is Enough?

The one incredibly good thing about a down cycle is that it always forces us to separate what is important in life from what is not. This is a very opportune time for you to be incredibly honest with yourself and ask the hard question How Much Is Enough?   What Read more