I have attended a lot of funerals over the years. The one common denominator is in every service someone is trying to communicate the legacy of the person who has died. There are some patterns I have noticed when people have lived their lives in such a way that truly leaves a mark on the world.
Begin With End In Mind-All of the people that really made a difference took the long look about life and determined what they wanted the top accomplishments to be in when it was over. When a person values relationships as a top priority, then you can see a pattern throughout their lives where other people came first. If you want to be known for something later, then you need to start investing in other people now. The most important people are the ones at home.
Leave Everything Better Than Found It- This is the type of person that is always trying to help others be successful and is not consumed about themselves. If they are a leader in the corporate world they are not looking out for number one, they want their teams or their companies to be better when they leave than when they came. The true test of someone’s leadership is not when he or she is there but what happens when they are gone.
Gave Away More Than They Took– In the end people are either more consumers or contributors. The consumers see other people as a means to their end while the contributors see other people as the end. These are the people that are always adding value to whatever they do from community involvement, personal relationships, work contributions and helping in their neighborhoods . They simply love to give more than they take and people are moved by their humility and servant spirit.
It is never to late to work on your legacy. The really important thing is taking the time to decide what you want it to be and then when the time comes other people will gladly step up and write your eulogy for you.
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